Comfortable Long-Haul Flights: How to Arrive Rested, Not Wrecked
Practical ways to make long flights more comfortable after fifty — choosing seats, what to wear and pack, moving, eating and drinking well, sleeping on board and easing jet lag.
A long-haul flight can be the gateway to extraordinary places: a grandchild on the other side of the world, a long-dreamed-of safari, a winter escape to the sun. But ten or fifteen hours in a narrow seat, in dry air, crossing several time zones, can also leave you stiff, dehydrated and exhausted for days after arrival.
The good news is that a little planning makes a remarkable difference. With the right seat, sensible clothing, a well-packed bag and some simple habits on board, many women find that they arrive feeling surprisingly human. This guide brings together practical advice to help you travel comfortably and recover quickly.
As always, if you have a medical condition, are pregnant, have had recent surgery, or have concerns about blood clots, heart or lung conditions, speak to your doctor before flying. They can advise on any precautions that are right for you.
Before you book
Choose your route
- Direct or stopover? A direct flight is quicker overall, but some travellers find that breaking a very long journey with a stopover of a night or two is far less tiring. A stopover can also be a mini-holiday in its own right.
- Timing. Consider whether daytime or overnight flights suit you. Overnight flights can help you sleep through some of the journey, while arriving in the morning can make it easier to adjust to the new time zone.
- Aircraft. Newer aircraft often have better cabin pressure and humidity, quieter cabins and better entertainment. It can be worth checking which aircraft type operates your flight.
Choose your cabin and seat
If your budget allows, premium economy or business class makes long flights much more comfortable, with more space, better seats and in business class a flat bed. Even an upgrade on one leg of a journey can help.
In economy, seat choice matters:
- Aisle seats let you get up and move without disturbing others — ideal if you like to stretch your legs or visit the toilet frequently.
- Window seats are better for sleeping, as you can lean against the side and are not disturbed by others.
- Bulkhead and exit-row seats offer more legroom, though bulkhead seats may have fixed armrests and less under-seat storage, and exit rows come with responsibilities and restrictions.
- Avoid seats near toilets and galleys if you want quiet and darkness.
Many airlines allow you to choose seats in advance, sometimes for a fee. Seat map websites can help you spot the best and worst seats on your aircraft.
Request assistance if needed
If you have mobility issues, ask the airline for assistance when booking. Most airports and airlines provide free help getting through the airport and onto the plane, and it can make a long journey much less tiring.
What to wear
Comfort is everything on a long flight:
- Loose, layered clothing in soft, breathable fabrics. Cabin temperatures vary, so layers let you adjust.
- Comfortable trousers with an elasticated or soft waist.
- A warm layer, such as a cardigan or fleece, and a large scarf or wrap.
- Comfortable shoes that are easy to slip on and off, as feet often swell during long flights.
- Warm socks to change into on board.
- Compression stockings, which some travellers find helpful for reducing leg swelling and discomfort. Ask your doctor or pharmacist whether they are suitable for you and what grade to choose.
Packing your hand luggage
A well-packed cabin bag makes a long journey far more comfortable. Consider:
Comfort
- Travel pillow — a supportive neck pillow, or an inflatable one that packs small.
- Eye mask and earplugs, or noise-cancelling headphones.
- A light blanket or large scarf, as airline blankets can be thin.
- Warm socks and slippers.
Hydration and skin
- An empty refillable water bottle, to fill after security.
- Lip balm, moisturiser and hand cream in travel sizes, as cabin air is very dry.
- Eye drops, if your eyes tend to feel dry.
- Facial wipes or a small facial spray to freshen up.
Health
- All your medications, in original packaging, with copies of prescriptions. Pack enough for the whole trip plus extra, in case of delays.
- Any medicines you might need during the flight, easy to reach.
- A list of your medications and key medical information.
Freshening up
- Toothbrush and toothpaste.
- Deodorant.
- A change of top and underwear, in case of delays or lost luggage.
Entertainment
- Books or an e-reader, puzzles, a journal.
- Downloaded films, music, podcasts or audiobooks on your phone or tablet, with headphones and a charger.
- A small power bank.
Check the current rules for liquids, batteries and medications for your airline and airports before you travel.
On board
Settle in
- Set up your space: keep essentials in a small pouch at your seat rather than in the overhead locker.
- Change into comfortable socks or slippers.
- Set your watch to your destination time to start adjusting mentally.
Keep moving
Sitting still for long periods can cause stiffness and swelling, and may increase the risk of blood clots for some people. Simple habits help:
- Walk up and down the aisle every hour or two when it is safe to do so.
- Do seated exercises: circle your ankles, flex and point your feet, lift your knees, roll your shoulders and gently turn your neck.
- Avoid crossing your legs for long periods.
- Stand and stretch at the back of the cabin, near the galleys, when there is space.
Many airlines show simple in-seat exercise routines on their entertainment systems.
Drink well
Cabin air is very dry, and many people become mildly dehydrated on long flights. Helpful habits:
- Drink water regularly, little and often.
- Limit alcohol, which contributes to dehydration and can disrupt sleep.
- Go easy on caffeine, especially if you want to sleep.
- Herbal teas can be a comforting alternative.
Eat sensibly
- Choose lighter meals, as heavy, rich food can be harder to digest when you are sitting still.
- Pack healthy snacks, such as nuts, dried fruit, oatcakes or fruit, in case meal times do not suit you.
- Pre-order special meals if you have dietary requirements.
Sleep
Sleeping on a plane is never easy, but you can help yourself:
- Time your sleep to fit the destination's night where possible.
- Create a sleep kit: eye mask, earplugs or headphones, neck pillow, warm layer and blanket.
- Recline your seat considerately and get as comfortable as possible.
- Fasten your seatbelt over your blanket, so crew do not need to wake you during turbulence.
- Use relaxation techniques, such as slow breathing, gentle music or a sleep app.
If you are thinking about using sleep aids, discuss this with your doctor beforehand, as some are not suitable for flying or for combining with other medications.
Managing jet lag
Crossing several time zones disrupts your body clock, causing tiredness, poor sleep, difficulty concentrating and digestive upset. Jet lag is often worse when travelling east. You cannot avoid it completely, but you can reduce its effects.
Before you fly
- Get plenty of rest in the days before departure.
- Gradually shift your bedtime an hour or so towards your destination time in the few days before travel, if practical.
On arrival
- Adopt local time immediately. Eat meals and go to bed at local times.
- Get outside in daylight, which is one of the most powerful ways to reset your body clock.
- Stay active during the day, with a gentle walk.
- Have a short nap if you must, but limit it to twenty or thirty minutes, and not too late in the day.
- Keep hydrated and eat light, regular meals.
- Plan an easy first day or two — avoid scheduling important events or long drives immediately after arrival.
As a rough guide, many people find it takes about a day per time zone to adjust fully, so be patient with yourself.
After the flight
- Take a shower and change clothes as soon as you can — it makes a remarkable difference to how you feel.
- Stretch gently to ease stiffness.
- Be aware of swelling in your legs. Some swelling after a long flight is common and usually settles quickly; seek medical advice if you notice pain, redness, warmth or swelling in one leg, or if you have chest pain or breathlessness.
Making the most of a stopover
If your journey includes a long layover or an overnight stop, it can become a welcome pause rather than a chore. For a layover of several hours, look into airport hotels that rent rooms by the day, quiet zones, spas or lounges where you can shower and lie down. Many large airports also have walking routes, gardens, art exhibitions and observation decks, all of which help you stretch your legs and reset your mood.
For a stopover of a night or two, choose a hotel close to the airport or with easy transport into the city, and plan only light sightseeing. Use the break to sleep properly, eat a proper meal, walk in daylight and begin adjusting to your destination's time zone. Many travellers find they arrive at their final destination far fresher than if they had flown straight through, and they gain a bonus city to remember as well.
A few extra tips
- Check in online and choose your seat early.
- Arrive at the airport in good time to reduce stress.
- Consider lounge access for longer layovers, for a quiet space, food, showers and comfortable seating.
- Keep a positive mindset. Treat the flight as time to rest, read, watch films and anticipate your adventure.
Arrive ready to enjoy
Long-haul flights will never be quite as comfortable as your own armchair, but with thoughtful preparation they can be much less tiring than you fear. Choose your seat carefully, dress comfortably, keep moving and drinking water, and give yourself time to adjust when you arrive. Then you can step off the plane ready to enjoy every moment of the adventure that awaits.